Regular Girl

So after the weekend I had i thought it would be necessary to write something in here since it needs to be updated anyway! =D
Before i go into this blog to deep i want you to feel what I'm feeling. So i decided to post the song i have on repeat right now.



The reason for this song

what I realized is that females and guys are just alike in this world! Sometimes so alike that we tend to bump heads! We all know the argument about females being called hoes and guys being called players. But we wont go into it.
What I'm here to do today is just express my feelings and get some input i guess.
What is a regular now a days? do those exist in 2010?
For someone like Chris Brown a regular girl would be just someone who isn't in the media every two days like him.
But what about the regular girl for a regular guy? What is that?
after countless nights of chillin with girls and g-mackin to different girls from all over you tend to think sometimes like what is a regular girl? Sometimes a regular girl who isnt into the things you are!
I have a girlfriend and im gratefl for her but sometimes she makes me wonder.
THey say for every girl is a guy but i think to myself sometimes maybe we are not the fit that the universe is suppose to pair up!


Anyway before i get emotional i just wanna digress.

I'm 18 and relaxing. Don't need to settle down right now. But sometimes it is good to have that person you can call yours.
The person who will stay up on the phone till 4 o clock in the morning fighting sleep to say random shit to you just because they love the sound of your voice!
The person you can take cute little facebook pictures with and not worry bout what people are saying.
Man ima wrap this entry up quickly.
its 2010 and my question is this ..... do regular people exist?
What happen to people who were real, the guys who would tell their girl they love them in front all they boys and they boys NOT clown him for being soft.
(Most guys do it cause they don't have that love)
FEMALES: Your not a hoe cause you like to do the same thing guys do a little often.
MALES: Stop calling females HOES! We do the same thing and get called players when in reality we are not! (Guys who arent faithful and cant keep a girl are insecure and lonely.)
FEMALES: Stop playing the victim card! Every man is not the same and not all of them will hurt you! Putting up a wall is useless cause it keeps the guys out but the pin inside.
MALES: Stop fuckin up and blaming it on the female! She has feelings as weel as you do!
FEMALES: Dont call guys dogs cause they cant stay faithful. As i said before they have feelings as well as you do. And with guys when they get hurt they dont put up walls they put up fronts which turn them into what they are.
BOTH SEXES: Men can get hurt and females can get hurt too. how the ydeal with it is a totally different story. Dont complain just get better at being the best!



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Creative Boredom: Deep thoughts > Interracial Relationships!

I did some recent thinking and I stumbled over the topic of Racism in America!
I realized that even tho it still exist, it is slowly but surely dying out.
This generation that is coming up is more open minded but at the same time a little bit more ignorant.
I Say that it is dying out because if you look around in America it's a huge melting pot!
Every city State or event you go to you see so many different people from different cultures!
Lets take Manhattan for example!
Every-time i go to Manhattan its a new experience for me!
I always meet someone from a different race there!
It's always good to be Open-minded to new things as in
Religion
Race
Skin Color
Diversity
Language
Music
New Words!

Thats just to name a few!
I strongly believe that racism started off of nothing else but sheer ignorance!
I believe that only Close minded people become racist because they are too narrow minded to see anything else now a days!
Now a days its hard to be racist! Public schools have more than one race in there now a days! No more segregation! ( well in the majority of places in america!)
Racists believe that only there race is superior!
You cant really say which race is superior to which because of the fact that we all did something great for this world!
Some maybe be bigger than others but the fact remains that we all are apart of this world no matter where you go!
No is superior to one another no matter how much money and/or fame or status you have!
You may not be in the same social class but thats because SOCIETY said so!
If all man were created equally then why is that you should have certain things i cant based on my skin tone or language or heritage? it makes no sense to me!
The majority of people in the world have the same body parts, insides, The only thing that separates you from everyone else is whats on the outside! feel me?
But thats besides the point im trying to make today!

I mainly wanna focus on relationships between different races!
Interracial relationships get looked down upon as wrong and weird but why?
My favorite quote .. " Love is color blind" - Anonymous
Why do people look at black dudes as sell outs when they date a white girl?
Why are white girls looked at as smuts when they date black guys!?
I personally think if we had more interracial relationships going on, alot more racism would die down!
As a black guy you were taught growing up that "white girls are all trouble atay away from them" - Momma Lmao
A white girl was taught growing up the same things about black guys.
I brought up this topic weeks ago on a panel and someone said something that bothered me a little ..
"White girls choose to not date black guys because they are abusive. Something like that won't happen in an all white relationship."
It bothered me for many reasons.
1. Because it was IGNORANCE in the 3rd degree!
2. I took offense to it .. well .. because I'm BLACK !
3. Abuse is not based on skin complexion.
I thought she was stupid for saying it regardless of it being a joke that didn't quite get over.
She just stereotyped and categorized black guys as a whole! Stating that we are all abusive!
Abuse is not based on skin complexion its based on the person, so the person can be black, white, yellow, pink, purple, green, blue, short, fat, tall, skinny or just a regular person they will still abuse you if thats what they do.
There are many guys who beat females WHO ARENT BLACK!
Not saying that i condone abuse because i damn sure don't i believe that anybody brave enough to hit a female is brave enough to share a cell for life! I'm just saying.
But what i am saying is that abuse is not generalized into one race! Every race does it you have to just be careful who you are cause they can be white black or spanish if they are abusive they will hit.

But i digress ...

Interracial relationships shouldn't be frowned upon, you should smile and say what a blessing!
This is what the black people were fighting for, to see everyone together as one. but yet still you instill in your kids heads that the opposite sex from another race is trouble?

I'm coming to a close but this topic will be continued !

No I'm not writing this because i have a white girlfriend cause i don't lmao. But I'm writing this because I'm a person who wants to see racism stop. Even though it may not be completely extinct it will die down to an all time low soon enough.
Point is the generalizations need to stop .. Open your mind up to new things just a little bit more america!
Thats all I'm saying!!!



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To be continued!.........

Creative Boredom: Poem > Hey there beautiful

Just heard Alicia Keys New song "Unthinkable(I'm ready) for the first time today!
I really honestly fell in love with the song! The song is pretty much about She is really feeling this new guy and i take it he is feeling her too and the feeling feel so true its unreal so why not do the unthinkable and get together! Im ready to be your baby!
And for some reason the song captivated me! The whole vibe of the song made me like think for a minute! but now i got this whole playlist playing and i'm getting mixed feelings! And i love feeling like this! BEcause to me this is the perfect time to write! So i got this poem im thinking about writing! And the title is in the name of the blog!
Hope you guys enjoy!

Girl of my dreams! Thought she wasn't existent.
Till i stumble past a pretty girl in a instance.
What was only five minutes felt like a whole lifetime!
I was going to say something but i was looking for the right time!
Confidence is sexy and the best color to wear.
She looks full of herself do i even dare?
Next thing you know my feet got me walking forward.
Look up from my i-pod and i'm headed straight towards her.
Wait she hasn't looked yet it's time to escape.
Gotta hold my composure this dream is probably fake!
No hold up i cant let her slip.
Oh shit stand straight before yo ass trip!
Chin up legs heavy but im still walking
She pulls out her cellphone and then starts talking
Fuck ima walk past as if it never happen
But i couldn't help but notice her skin was soft like satin
Im hating myself should i talk or should i go
I should mind my own B.I. No! go with with the flow!
There she was in front of me in wearing Class like an accessory
I don't even know i think she would mess with me!
Body that the bhaddest would envy!
My heart pumping fast but my mind feeling empty
I'm tryna turn around but my feet wouldnt let me
She peeped me as a joker
So i straightened up my walk and i started getting closer
Good thing the barber just did a number on my hair
I think i look pretty fresh but would she even care!
When i got next to her i noticed her perfume and manicured cuticles
What's the next step
i took a deep breath!
And said "Hey there beautiful"


I could keep going on with the poem but i'll end it in the air and yall wait for the next part!

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